Orgasm from vaginal penetration without direct clitoral stimulation is estimated to elude some 75 percent of female-bodied people , and it has nothing to do with how good the sex is. The closer your clit is to your vagina, the more likely penetrative sex is to make you come. My stained bedsheets are here to tell you that squirting is, in fact, very real. What you see in those gushing videos is pure performance and often the product of water packets inserted into the vagina pre-shoot, says Holly Richmond , a somatic psychologist and certified sex therapist.

From eating ice cream cones to packing suitcases, people have interesting tricks for getting things done in their own unique ways. Despite what many cookie-cutter movie scenes may tell us, the same is true when it comes to our sex lives. But I also hear from a lot of people—especially people with vaginas —who have a hard time orgasming with a partner or even alone. That can be frustrating and isolating, and we don't talk about it enough. Part of that stigma and struggle might come from thinking you have to orgasm in one certain way, which is totally not the case. There are lots of different things that might be able to make you orgasm—you just have to find what works for you. So, here we talked to people who really have it figured out to learn the one thing that always makes them come.

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